It’s common that every human expects something from someone they love or the person whom they are very close. But at times we get hurt when things really go wrong and when something happens across our expectations. It’s quite common these days. We cannot make everyone satisfied. We cannot sacrifice the whole of whatever we have just because someone else kept some kind of expectations on us. It’s harder to understand this world and the critical people who live in why to carry the struggles and sufferings throughout the life? Why to get hurt day by day?
The real solution is to sit back and think. Evaluate ourselves. What’s gone wrong in between either in relationship with people or just the way we expect others without understanding anyone or not even giving others a chance to understand you. We still blame people on the other hand we also still blame situations and circumstances. To defend we say nothing or none are wrong but it’s only our mindset that takes everything in a wrong sense and when we get the same answer from some one we say Bullshit !.
We have to understand and also have to approve very strongly that we are the one who complicate the life with unnecessary thoughts.But understanding and approving by mind is always done by people where the trick lies is we have to do by HEART.
It is easy to say that you are the only soul who can completely control your life, but when it comes to relationships there is always the other person.In a relationship, you cannot be the puppeteer. People have their own emotions, behaviors, actions, beliefs, scars, wounds, fears, dreams, and perspectives. They are their own person.
Every time I sit an think about the fact that I always get to Deal with Disappointing Relationships day and night and for a solution I also think its high time to 'Change/Stop My Expectations'. When the very truth that in reality it is possible strikes my head This line I read long back in one of my face book wall post comes up
“If you can’t change the circumstances, change your perspective.”
Sometimes it feels as if you are completely in control of your life, but when it comes to relationships there is always the other person.In a relationship, you cannot be the puppeteer. People have their own emotions, behaviors, actions, beliefs, scars, wounds, fears, dreams, and perspectives. They are their own person.
How often have we wanted a relationship to be something that it is not?Literally 24 * 7 ? How much do you expect from a person? Do they fail you each and every time?But we still don't stop the relationship.In healthy relationships there are certain expectations, like being treated well or being respected. Yet sometimes we find ourselves in relationships where things our jus not our way !. We may feel used but still hurt.
We cannot expect other people to treat us as we would treat them. We cannot assume anything or force change upon someone who clearly demonstrates he or she is stuck in his or her own way.But what happens is this..!
With eyes full of clarity, We are capable of changing for the relationships in our life by adjusting our point of view.How long can we adjust ?Endless years ? yes.In all circumstances ? No.Here you get to think when we adjust for endless time why not for circumstances ! Life will not let you feel easy in all situations . For an example ! In a situation where your comparatively trusted or say not believed by one , Or say a very dear one throws harsh words on you when your in a terrible situation ,could you feel like getting back the same way leaving aside the pain ? ! Even if you get back the same old closeness can never exist!
Expectations in hard times will only leave you alone and expectations in happy times will only make you feel bad and worsen the situation !
An life is cherished when it brings you more and more surprises ! A very cute message that I've come across till date
"When I learnt to dry my tears,I found a shoulder to cry on
When I mastered the skill of hating Someone started loving me from the core of his heart.
And that's life Success introduces you to the world but Failure introduces the world to you."
Expect the right thing from the right person and Enjoy this cute little life of yours !
The real solution is to sit back and think. Evaluate ourselves. What’s gone wrong in between either in relationship with people or just the way we expect others without understanding anyone or not even giving others a chance to understand you. We still blame people on the other hand we also still blame situations and circumstances. To defend we say nothing or none are wrong but it’s only our mindset that takes everything in a wrong sense and when we get the same answer from some one we say Bullshit !.
We have to understand and also have to approve very strongly that we are the one who complicate the life with unnecessary thoughts.But understanding and approving by mind is always done by people where the trick lies is we have to do by HEART.
It is easy to say that you are the only soul who can completely control your life, but when it comes to relationships there is always the other person.In a relationship, you cannot be the puppeteer. People have their own emotions, behaviors, actions, beliefs, scars, wounds, fears, dreams, and perspectives. They are their own person.
Every time I sit an think about the fact that I always get to Deal with Disappointing Relationships day and night and for a solution I also think its high time to 'Change/Stop My Expectations'. When the very truth that in reality it is possible strikes my head This line I read long back in one of my face book wall post comes up
“If you can’t change the circumstances, change your perspective.”
Sometimes it feels as if you are completely in control of your life, but when it comes to relationships there is always the other person.In a relationship, you cannot be the puppeteer. People have their own emotions, behaviors, actions, beliefs, scars, wounds, fears, dreams, and perspectives. They are their own person.
How often have we wanted a relationship to be something that it is not?Literally 24 * 7 ? How much do you expect from a person? Do they fail you each and every time?But we still don't stop the relationship.In healthy relationships there are certain expectations, like being treated well or being respected. Yet sometimes we find ourselves in relationships where things our jus not our way !. We may feel used but still hurt.
We cannot expect other people to treat us as we would treat them. We cannot assume anything or force change upon someone who clearly demonstrates he or she is stuck in his or her own way.But what happens is this..!
With eyes full of clarity, We are capable of changing for the relationships in our life by adjusting our point of view.How long can we adjust ?Endless years ? yes.In all circumstances ? No.Here you get to think when we adjust for endless time why not for circumstances ! Life will not let you feel easy in all situations . For an example ! In a situation where your comparatively trusted or say not believed by one , Or say a very dear one throws harsh words on you when your in a terrible situation ,could you feel like getting back the same way leaving aside the pain ? ! Even if you get back the same old closeness can never exist!
Expectations in hard times will only leave you alone and expectations in happy times will only make you feel bad and worsen the situation !
An life is cherished when it brings you more and more surprises ! A very cute message that I've come across till date
"When I learnt to dry my tears,I found a shoulder to cry on
When I mastered the skill of hating Someone started loving me from the core of his heart.
And that's life Success introduces you to the world but Failure introduces the world to you."
Expect the right thing from the right person and Enjoy this cute little life of yours !
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