1 hand on pen
other hand on phone,
1 ear on lecture
other ear on friends talk
1 eye on board
other eye on boys...........
Teenage is not just this,thats a period of life which tells us so many things,the way yo handle yourself now tells what yo will be up to later on in life...right from the crushes,parents,siblings,friends,relatives will teach yo life !!!your teenage starts when yo are in 8th std....em sure that grade could have taught yo what friends are...
getting into ma experience,yeah that's when adhi left India and then understanding each friend an choosing the best of the lot was a great task....the things that i realized in that grade was what made me finish schooling peacefully .... i had blackmailing gng on...i had things which i wouldn't discuss with ma parents cos friends behaved very matured :/ learning to keep things to ma self...and most important of all yo will be throne to a renaming ceremony ...thats how ppl call yo throughout their life....but that was fun too :)
then yo will start fighting for birth rights,especially with gals they already stay in chauvinistic society surrounded by men who jus dominate...i would even say the only guy who gives her freedom is her dad....and gals of this generation wants it and its a gift that each men could give ..what's your problem in her having fun ? don yo think even she has to go through what you've undergone...please all the male chauvinist understand i don wanna be harsh think over it ....would yo do it to yourself if yo were a gal.... after-all she is yet another human being yo have no rights to deny it to her even if she is "yours"......teenage for a gal would be worse cos 3/4th of her most awaited period will jus fly either wanting for rights or jus being a nerd ( nt to all gals may be ,but in ma case)
you will get to know more of problems among your close buddies ,meaning friends and family,best way to walk over it is jus go ahead with your work with all your parts shut ......jus don be bothered!!! your ultimate aim could obviously be your happiness....and for some of us our happiness lies on parents happiness ...on that case before every word yo talk and every single decision yo take remember to keep them in your mind and not in your heart cos "don believe you heart its on your left side on not on your right"...for ppl who din get this ....always stay away from ppl except your parents make your point clear to them and to your friends don ever get attached cos this is an age which demands for more of relationship an nt jus fun.
for an eg,if swati an me land up with a huge fight both of us would never learn until we are back to form....i jus realized it is waste of time if i had done this with someone else....Not all of you will get a swati !!!!!!!!!! :D
Make things clear to all your beloved ones,you expect them not to doubt yo then behave that way,if they still don get yo then jus tell them on their face that your not up to what they think ....and then its up to them,if they don wanna trust yo may be ones or twice yo can make them understand things,yet if it continues then jus don bother its not your business !!!
Your college life,its not at all easy,and for engineering students Gosh the most hectic period ,a very easily carried away age and balancing family and friends is gonna be a great task,you will get to meet more ppl who really behave weired,you could get hyper tensed ,yo would face more of ppl who put yo down,who break the trust yo have got on them.....after all that in college yo will get back home and there yo will find ppl who don even bother about your present condition they jus want their work to be done .....Self Minded ....
You pile up all this and will think over the stupid fights with friends, siblings and say with ppl around yo when your home alone yo get to talk with ppl yo will tell them about what had happened and then they will try to explain the face that the fault is in yo ....again you'll think over the fault you'll will start adjusting...that is when ppl will find more of mistakes than what they actually complained... you'll go mad cos you wont have anyone to console yo...To all the elders who say enjoy your Teenage ...dam it above all this where do yo think we can ever smile whole heartedly ??????
But,Now em 18 an finally understood or say found a small tip for lifetime "Try to present yourself that you are happy,slowly it becomes ur habit,finally it becomes your character"
never can you yo expect ppl to make yo happy,its up to yo stay happy or not,yo get to decide so many things in life at your teenage,for all ma pals when yo have decided that your happiness is your parents then your life is jus full of giving up....it was yo who decided why dont you'll take it up with happiness ? "evalo vo pannitom edha panna matom ma ? "
Stay alone and enjoy single life,never in life may yo think of a person nxt yo,even when your home alone remember yo have got Guardian Angels standing nxt to yo ....so be happy when a frnd of your leave yo or when some one ditches yo ....After all they are another human...they aren't your blood or heart beat .....yo din ask for life yet yo are here then yo cant expect things to happen on your own yo need to make it your own way ,if yo cant afford to do that then enjoy what life gives yo ....Cos that's what you are !!!!!!!!!!
